A Father’s Responsibility

by Jim Weikal

The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice, and he who sires a wise son will be glad in him (Proverbs 23:24).

A righteous or wise offspring does not come from great genes or wealth or societal position or by accident. The righteous and wise child is the result of good biblical parenting. But fathers especially are called to instruct:

Hear, my son, your father’s instruction (Proverbs 1:8).

The Hebrew word for “instruction” implies that a father should set right disobedient behavior. Being a wishy-washy father who would rather look the other way at a son’s willful disobedience is not being a good parent.

God is described as a Father who reproves those He loves; in the same manner a good earthly father “corrects the son in whom he delights” (Proverbs 3:12).

Being a good father to a growing family results from loving the children’s mother and making disciplinary decisions that are based on the wisdom found in a biblical worldview.

Bedtime Prayer

by Jeff Harter

Now I lay me down to sleep.
I pray Thee, Lord, my soul to keep.
Forgive the wrong I’ve done today,
take all my anxious thoughts away.

Assure me that I’ve done my best,
and now it’s time for me to rest.
Guide me through the starry night,
and wake me with the morning’s light.

I pray, Thine angels from above
guard me with Thy mighty love.
If I should die before I wake,
I pray Thee, Lord, my soul to take.

If I should live another day,
lead me in your narrow way.

Amen.

Teach Them About Eternity

by Bill Rudge

Photo by Bill Rudge

Parents, I have an important message for you so pay close attention. You teach your children sports, help them with school work and many other things that can have a lifetime benefit. But do you teach them about the most important journey they will take or the most amazing adventure they will experience – eternity? Eternity lasts forever!

As a youth and on through my life, I have lost many family members, friends and acquaintances to eternity – many of whom were taken unexpectedly and were not prepared.

I had a vivid dream one night several months ago of two friends from my past standing with me on a small boat a little offshore. It was twilight and before us lay a vast, dark ocean. I said to my friends as we sailed into the darkness and infinite unknowns of eternity, “Accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so you are prepared for what lies ahead.” But they seemed indifferent as we headed toward certain demise. Then I woke up.

Parents, don’t be indifferent. Teach your children valuable lessons for this life, but do not neglect to teach them about what is most important and lasts forever – eternity!

Others May, You Cannot

If God has called you to be really like Jesus, He will draw you to a life of crucifixion and humility, and put upon you such demands of obedience, that you will not be able to follow other people, or measure yourself by other Christians, and in many ways He will seem to let others do things which He will not let you do.

Other Christians and ministers may push themselves and work schemes to carry out their plans, but you cannot do it; and if you attempt it, you will meet with such failure and rebuke from the Lord as to make you sorely penitent.

Others may boast of themselves, of their work, of their success, of their writings, but the Holy Spirit will not allow you to do any such thing, and if you begin it, He will lead you into some deep mortification that will make you despise yourself and all your good works.

Others may be allowed to succeed in making money, or may have a legacy left to them, but it is likely God will keep you poor, because He wants you to have something far better than gold, namely, a helpless dependence on Him, that He may have the privilege of supplying your needs day by day out of an unseen treasury.

The Lord may let others be honored and put forward, and keep you hidden in obscurity, because He wants you to produce some choice, fragrant fruit for His coming glory, which can only be produced in the shade. He may let others be great, but keep you small. He may let others do a work for Him and get the credit of it, but He will make you work on without knowing how much you are doing; and then to make your work still more precious, He may let others get the credit for the work which you have done, and thus make your reward ten times greater when Jesus comes.

The Holy Spirit will put a strict watch over you, with a jealous love, and will rebuke you for little words and feelings, or for wasting your time, which other Christians never seem distressed over. So make up your mind that God is an infinite Sovereign, and has a right to do as He pleases with His own.

He may not explain to you a thousand things which puzzle your reason in His dealings with you. But if you absolutely sell yourself to be His … He will wrap you up in a jealous love, and bestow upon you many blessings which come only to those who are in the inner circle.

Settle it forever, then, that you are to deal directly with the Holy Spirit, and that He is to have the privilege of tying your tongue, or chaining your hand, or closing your eyes, in ways that He does not seem to use with others. Now when you are so possessed with the living God that you are, in your secret heart, pleased and delighted over this peculiar, personal, private, jealous guardianship and management of the Holy Spirit over your life, you will have found the vestibule of Heaven.

Excerpts from George Douglas Watson, 1845-1924 (public domain)

Limits and Destinies

God has given each one of us a purpose in life: a calling, a mission, a destiny to fulfill. When we choose to follow Christ wholeheartedly, we are no longer held hostage and defined by the limitations this world puts on us. We no longer have to feel defeated, discouraged, dismayed or depressed by the circumstances that surround us. We are not limited by the resources at hand but by the faith in our hearts.

I have met “wounded warriors” who have lost limbs and they still run and compete with prosthetic limbs in races. Our limits are mostly in our minds. Put on the mind of Christ and be transformed by the Word of God and go set the world on fire!

Ed Lugan, BRM supporter from Oceanside, CA

A Declaration of Biblical Convictions

by Bill Rudge

Wounds from a friend are better than many kisses from an enemy (Proverbs 27:6).

Those with strong biblical convictions will not participate in activities and conversations which dishonor our Lord. We will not sit by in silence as Jesus Christ is maligned and ridiculed. We will not compromise our standards to please others or refrain from witnessing while people around us wander in confusion – dying before our very eyes. We will not just sit there passively and watch our loved ones be seduced by the spirit of this age. We will – we must – speak up and say something – even if it offends. It is better to offend others and be disliked now, than to be praised for conforming to the world and compromising convictions, but to be hated later for not warning them and telling the truth.

The Word of God calls us to be loving, gracious and non-judgmental to those without Christ, but to rebuke and correct those who claim to know Christ yet deny Him with their words or behavior, thereby leading others astray. When conversations become unprofitable, photos become crass or behaviors become licentious, we will excuse ourselves. Likewise, when professing Christians flaunt their supposed liberties for alcohol consumption … or display immoral conduct – all in the name of freedom – we will quickly depart.

Tolerance is not compassion and being non-judgmental is not the same as love. In the face of potential disaster, love compels us to warn of impending consequences. Our hearts are troubled and grieved as the moral values and lifestyles of our culture drift further and further from God’s standard. At the risk of seeming antisocial, we will not participate in unprofitable and degrading conversations or involve ourselves in behaviors and lifestyles that dishonor the Lord, even though our culture accepts them as normal.

Through Christ we will stand strong in the midst of accelerating apostasy and intensifying persecution. We will not compromise our biblical values or commitment to Jesus Christ. Our prayer is that we remain faithful to the end, being powerful and effective witnesses to those who have ears to hear, eyes to see and hearts to receive what the Spirit and Word are saying to this end-times’ generation.

What Are Your Convictions?

by BJ Rudge, Ph.D.

This is one of these fundamental questions, I believe, that we should not only ask ourselves but know how to answer. In fact, this is the very question I ask the students in my ethics class at a local university, pointing out that they must identify what they believe and why they believe it.

The concept of conviction in our culture today seems to have given way to the “virtue” of compromise. While compromise in certain contexts is needed, the idea of following the crowd, doing what everyone else is doing, seems to be the mantra of our time! But our culture is desperate for leaders who will rise above the rest and live with conviction.

Conviction creates a clear path for how to choose to live our lives. It is an every day reminder that certain things must never be compromised; that we must stand for certain core values even if it means we have to stand alone. 

The story of the sacrifice of Riley Howell is an example in point: When the gunman entered his classroom at UNC Charlotte, rather than run or hide Riley charged him. An act – not surprising to those who knew him – that reflected the way he lived his life. Although this decision would cost Riley his life, it saved the lives of others. Conviction does not yield to consequences but lives by principle: doing what one knows is the right thing to do.

The Christian world needs men and women of conviction: Men and women who, like Riley, will stand for what is right, regardless of the cost. Men and women who will not seek the comforts of compromise, but out of a love for Jesus Christ and others will stand for what is true; men and women who, despite the pressures of popular opinion, are willing to stand alone for their faith. 

So, let me ask you the same question I ask my ethics students, what are your convictions? What do you believe and why do you believe it? May we be ready every day to give a reason for the hope we have (1 Peter 3:15, 16).